A recent article on Glam Adelaide by Hannah Pendlebury suggested that clutter in the home is the reason that many couples fight. Unfortunately, this rang a little bit too true for me!
Oh-so Naive
My fiancé Nick and I have been living together for nearly six years. When we first moved in together, I had just finished two years of hopping around Australia in little six month bursts. My entire life fit into one (slightly oversized/heavily-charged-at-the-airport) suitcase & Nick left most of what he owned at home with his parents. We moved into a small, two bedroom, open-plan apartment at Henley Beach and marvelled at how minimalist we were!
The Clutter Begins
Piece by piece we started accumulating ‘things’. It’s unclear when the ‘things’ started appearing. However, three years later when we purchased our first home (twice the size of our apartment) it was clear we were both as bad as each other for collecting and holding onto unnecessary bits and pieces. We didn’t feel any more fulfilment from having these extra ‘things’ – in fact we were a little annoyed that the moving process took four times as long as our first one!
Time to GET RID OF IT
It’s now a little under one year until Nick and I get married. This feels like the perfect time to focus on de-cluttering our space for the start of married life together (and a new wave of collecting bits and pieces I’m sure). The Glam Adelaide article claims that over half of the couples surveyed suffer from “Space Stress” and I KNOW that we are one of them. I have done some research (a big shout out to the space saving, clutter clearing world of Pinterest) and together Nick and I are going to implement some changes! Here are some of the articles that particularly resonated with me.
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